“Anything is possible” – coffee with Russell

Episode Title: Anything is Possible

Featuring: Russell

In this powerful episode of the Sober Coffee podcast, Mike and Glenn sit down with Russell to explore the paradox of finding victory through surrender. Russell’s journey is a raw look at the grit required to move from the “addictive hell” of living under a bridge to a life of purpose, connection, and joy.

The Road to Surrender

For years, Russell battled a trifecta of addiction, depression, and PTSD. Despite multiple stints in rehab, he realized he was never “fearless and thorough” about his recovery. It wasn’t until he hit his absolute floor—homeless and living under a bridge—that he finally stopped fighting and started surrendering.

On January 5th, 2022, everything changed. Russell stopped going through the motions and started “buying into the hope” offered by those who walked the path before him.

Key Takeaways & Lessons:

• The Anatomy of a Relapse: Russell identifies the four red flags that led to his past slips:
  1. Stopping meeting attendance.
  2. Ceasing communication with his Higher Power.
  3. Walking away from service.
  4. Isolating from his community.
• The Discipline of Freedom: To maintain his sobriety today, Russell follows a disciplined daily routine that includes morning prayer, staying connected to his support network, consistent meetings, and active service projects.
• Feelings Over Numbling: A major milestone in his recovery has been learning to “enjoy feeling his feelings” rather than silencing them with a drink.
• The Big Lie: Russell discusses how he learned to ignore the voice of addiction that claims a drink will make a bad day better.

Notable Quotes:

“I love life today versus going through the motions of addictive hell.””You can be as free as you want to be.””AA doesn’t work for people who don’t thoroughly work it.”

Looking Forward

Today, Russell is a man transformed. He is an active family man, a dedicated student pursuing a Computer Engineering degree, and a testament to the fact that you can walk with your head held high regardless of your past. His message to the “sober curious” is simple: Keep coming back until it works for you.