Dating in Sobriety: When Are You Ready?
Mike and Glenn welcome Jackie and Tommy for a frank discussion on dating, emphasizing that real relationships are built on honesty. The group explores the common guidance of waiting a full year of sobriety before dating, stressing that personal health must be the top priority. Key takeaways include:
- Prioritizing self-improvement before seeking a partner.
- “Comfort” does not equal “ready.”
- Dating isn’t just for singles—married couples should also invest in focused time together.
- The essential need to discuss relationship opportunities with a trusted mentor/sponsor (“someone who can read your label”).
- A strong warning about trauma bonding and the importance of checking one’s own motives as well as being aware of others’.
- The indispensable role of spirituality in making sound relationship decisions.


