Episode 117: A conversation with Mary-Frances O’Connor on the grieving brain


EDUCATION

Ph.D., Clinical Psychology
University of Arizona, Tucson, AZ
1998 – 2004 

Bachelor of Arts, Psychology
Northwestern University, Evanston, IL
1992 – 1996


PROFESSIONAL APPOINTMENTS

Director of Clinical Training 
University of Arizona, Department of Psychology
2019 – present

Associate Professor of Psychology
University of Arizona, Department of Psychology
2017 – present

Assistant Professor of Psychology
University of Arizona, Department of Psychology
2012 – 2017

Assistant Professor in Residence 
UCLA, Department of Psychiatry and Biobehavioral Science
2007 – 2012 

Postdoctoral Fellow 
UCLA, Cousins Center for Psychoneuroimmunology
2004 – 2007


Intern, Health Track
UCLA, Neuropsychiatric Institute and Hospital
2003 – 2004

#Trending Series: Pt 7: What Is Dry Drunk?

Glenn and Mike describe dry drunk as the grumpy guy that hasn’t had a drink but is miserable and complains about everything in their life. Why? Because stopping drinking is one thing, but then what? If you’re drinking to escape, then stop drinking without surrendering to recovery, you are still miserable but without the alcohol – and the same sh%^ behavior is still there. 

Glenn and Mike elaborate on the difference between drunk, dry and sober. You can be drunk by yourself, you can be dry by yourself, but sober takes a community and a commitment to recovery.

If you feel like you’re a dry drunk, some helpful hints:

  1. Practice self care
  2. Avoid trigger situations
  3. Start a journal
  4. Take mind off cravings by doing other activities
  5. Limit things that hurt your sleep
  6. Think about engaging in the 12 steps of AA

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Mentioned in this episode:

Dr John Episode: What Is Sober? https://www.sober.coffee/podcast/episode/40951704/bonus-drop-what-is-sober-dr-john-joins

Want more clinical information about Dry Drunk?

Visit Care Addiction Center’s Resources For Recovery Blog:

https://www.careaddiction.com/edu/dry-drunk

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Recorded at Audiohive Podcasting: https://www.audiohivepodcasting.com

In collaboration with Care Addiction Center: https://www.careaddiction.com

Leaning in Until You Love It

Episode 18 – So, we all know the term ‘fake it until you make it…’ It really doesn’t settle with me well. It’s setting yourself up for failure before you even launch. Your mind tells you you are fraudulent, no good, etc…and I don’t know about you, but that’s no way I want to start a journey to change, growth, or adaptation in any part of my life. In this episode, I talk about real, raw change and how LEANING INTO your goals, aspirations, and shifts is much more sustainable. In addition, I go through action steps to accomplishing steps in the right direction for actually getting things done. Looking to make a shift in your life, business, or relationships OR become more grounded in the things that you do in life? This episode is for you! 

Additional support and information from this episode for anyone looking for some accountability:

HYPED – 365 Day Challenge

Join me in 2023 for a year long challenge to prove that small steps can lead to big change and growth. More details at the link provided.

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Where should you start to live Inflammation-Free? 8 Easy steps to get started!

Today we will give you actionable steps to help rid your body of inflammations. We also talk about the different kinds of inflammation, how they differ and how your body reacts to them.

Do you have questions about your wellness routine and boundaries?

We are all about community and wellness in this episode so let’s jump right into it.

[04:47] The two different kinds of inflammation.

[05:28] 6 Warning signs to help you figure out whether you have chronic inflammation

[10:20] 5 easy tips to help you calm inflammation in your body

[15:15] Health implication of red, processed meat

[18:07] 3 food groups from which we get the most sodium

[19:18] Recommended dosage of daily intake of greens

[24:59] Healthy oil you can use

[28:14] How to eliminate prolonged stress

LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

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+ Join the Facebook Community

+ Living Inflammation Free Food & Pantry Guide

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James C – A Lover of Addicts

You can learn from anyone. You can learn what to do. You can learn what not to do. If you listen to their story, listen to their life and the challenges they face, if you truly listen – their story is suggesting to you how to overcome an obstacle in your life. That’s what we hear from James C.

James shares that he was given the gift of surrender on a cold January night in Michigan. It was the end of the road. He was highly addicted to alcohol, heroin, methadone, and valium and spent detox in a dingy, dark room. On the third night, sick as a dog, James tells us about the circumstances that led to his surrender, his gift of sobriety and the willingness to do the hard work that would be facing him after detox.

If you know someone who needs to hear this episode, share it with them!

For more about this podcast:

Visit Sober.Coffee website: https://www.sober.coffee

Sober.Coffee on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sober.coffeepodcast/

Recorded at Audiohive Podcasting: https://www.audiohivepodcasting.com

In collaboration with Care Addiction Center: https://www.careaddiction.com